{"id":12053,"date":"2023-01-04T12:43:25","date_gmt":"2023-01-04T09:43:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vendeto.am\/?p=12053"},"modified":"2023-01-04T12:43:26","modified_gmt":"2023-01-04T09:43:26","slug":"i-am-44-years-old-i-have-not-worked-a-day-mamas-and-papas-took-care-of-me-but-i-dont-understand-why-there-is-any-shame-in-that-what-is-wrong-with-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vendeto.am\/?p=12053","title":{"rendered":"I am 44 years old, I have not worked a day. Mamas and papas took care of me, but I don&#8217;t understand why there is any shame in that. What is wrong with me?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I am 44 years old, I have not worked a day. Mamas and papas took care of me, but I don&#8217;t understand why there is any shame in that. What is wrong with me?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;m a 44-year-old guy, but I don&#8217;t contradict what people keep saying that you should work. How bad am I?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"799\" height=\"462\" src=\"https:\/\/vendeto.am\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/05233.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-12054\" srcset=\"https:\/\/vendeto.am\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/05233.png 799w, https:\/\/vendeto.am\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/05233-300x173.png 300w, https:\/\/vendeto.am\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/05233-768x444.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 799px) 100vw, 799px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Mamas and papas take care of me. I&#8217;m their only son, they say: what&#8217;s the point, if you dance, work, as long as we exist, we have to take care of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My friends and my wife tell me to get up and go to work, but to be honest, I don&#8217;t see any point in doing business.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What do people work for? 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