My mother loves her stepdaughter more than me. I’m just shocked by his behavior

A couple of years ago, my mother remarried. Her husband came to live with her. My mother’s apartment is small but very comfortable and there is enough space for the two of us, and my husband and I now live in Bashkiria, because he is a migrant worker, but a few years ago

they offered us to buy an apartment in Yerevan and we agreed. Moreover, the money had to be paid in parts and it was very convenient. It was our dream apartment, bright, spacious, with high ceilings. We have been renovating there for a long time, because we are in no hurry. My husband still has three years to live. Besides, we wanted a good renovation that would last us many years, and a good renovation costs a lot. We instructed my mother to supervise the repair.

Because he lived not far from our apartment and could control everything. Recently, my husband was given a long-awaited vacation and we decided to surprise our parents, so we did not inform them in advance about our arrival, but since we were very

want to see the renovation of our new apartment, we went there first. It’s hard to convey what emotions I experienced when I saw what happened there. It turned out that my mother had allowed her new husband’s daughter to live there with her children, who were still very young.

To say I was surprised is an understatement. I immediately contacted my mother and asked her to come urgently, but my mother did not understand why I was upset and what she had done wrong. He said he did it because we live far away and that girl doesn’t have an apartment to stay.

First of all, it was very strange that my mother did not warn us about anything, secondly, we noticed that they had not done our repairs. In the end, my husband told that girl that he was giving her three months to look for an apartment. I understand that my mother did a favor,

but why he didn’t consult with me, I can’t understand it. Maybe we would agree, but with a couple of conditions. My mother is very worried about that girl. I already feel that the new man’s daughter is more important to him than me.